My friends name isnt on my farmville page i accepted her as a neighbour and when i try send her a neighbour request her name isnt there either

Try sending a message. If that wont work post to the wall that she needs to unblock you. If she unblocks you, you can accept the request.

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You will need to contact Facebook support for that.. Here is a link to their live chat:
http://www.facebook.com/note.php?note_id=410099297768

You need to update the Flash Player for you Facebook simply go to www.adobe.com
and update the software.

How to send a friend request:
1. Find the "Search" box on top of your page.
2. Type in their the name of your friend you know.
3. Press ENTER to begin search.
4. If you can already see the list. Click the button "Add as Friend" right beside the person's name and it will now send a friend request.

To send message:
1. Click on the "Profile" link on upper-right of your page. (This will bring you to your profile page.)
2. Below your profile pic if you have one. You can see there the list of your friends.
For example: Friends(100).
3. Click your friends name and you will be brought to his/her profile page.
4. On the upper-right of your page. Click the "Message" button below the "Home, Profile, Account" menus.
5. A "New Message" will show. You can now start typing your message to your friend. Then press the "Send" button.

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You have to add your friends as neighbours so that they will show up in friends bar in farmville!

Hello. have you been using internet browser other than Internet Explorer. I do suggest you use Mozilla firefox. On the Tools menu of Firefox, Select add-ons. Install Adobe flash player plug-in. Restart your browser. Try playing again. Good luck

Hi The farmville gifts only lasts for 24 Hrs. Before you get the gifts in gift box, you need to accept them in the facebook requests page. Also one can send a gift once in a 24 Hrs time. The face book requests can be found on the right top in the Facebook home page.

try this get in to your account privacy settings, choose applications and websites, edit blocked applications.
if you found farmville then click the "remove"
you should be able to see farmville on facebook again
it works for me

that I believe is to do with the amount of requests that you can make per day.
Someone pointed out earlier that you can only make 24 requests per day and that both "neighbour requests" and "gift requests" add to this amount. You can gift 24 items every four hours I think, but I do not know what the daily limit is with neighbour requests (24?)

That's not quite the problem, I think (I have the same)
I have now four neighbours which come up in my list as "Neighbours" but they have a blank "?" picture and no name. I can see their rank, XP and coins, and I suppose I can send gifts.
But I cannot remove them as neighbours!!! They are unproductive neighbours for me and vice versa but the "remove as neighbour" link does not work.