Dodge caravan dies when in gear

SOURCE: 2002 dodge grand caravan fuse box

The fuse box is located under the hood. There is component map printed on the inside of the cover. This tells you on your model where the fuse or relay is located

SOURCE: 2002 Dodge grand caravan

It would appear that the relay is located on the cross rail that runs across the front of the vehicle (in front of the radiator). I found out that it is riveted in place by a single rivet, so in order to replace mine, I will have to remove the rivet and use a self-tapping screw to secure a new one.
The fan relay is located in the fuse panel located under the hood beside the battery. It will be marked under the lid. Make sure you check the maxi fuse for the fan also. 

SOURCE: CAR CUTS OFF WHEN PUT IN GEAR

if it is standerd then it is most likely your lutch try to keep your r.p.ms at the owest point you can before shifting if it is automatic it could be the pressure plate but im not an expert with automatics{yet again the change them so often that nobody really is}

SOURCE: need wireing diagram for 2002 dodge grand caravan

------>>>FRONT>>>>of Van >>>>

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#5 cyl #6 cyl

#3 cyl #4 cyl

#1 cyl #2 cyl
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I COIL BLOCK I
I I
I #3 #1 #5 I
I I
I I Firing Order Is
I I 1 2 3 4 5 6
I #6 #4 #2 I
I _______________I_

the Wires Go Accordingly to prospective Terminals, So Sorry Unable to Send Pics through FixYa, A Formating Problem Exists
and they show on my end but not on your end this is TRUE and CORRECT To The BOOK other than the Lines from Coil to Spark Plug ENDS at CYLINDERS. Please dont Forget to RATE Me
Thank You And Happy Motoring!!

SOURCE: 2002 dodge ram 1500 van wonnt stay started

I have the same van and the problem I had that was causing this was the fuel pump....