It won't die when pulling the relay because it has another power path to the fuel pump through the oil pressure switch . Fuel Pump Electrical Circuits Description and Operation watch this video on fuel pump control , shows chrysler first , ford ,then gm . wait for gm an he explains the oil pressure switch . Plus when it won't start ,don't guess or theorize ! Test what's missing ? check for spark , no spark check ignition system , coil's , ignition module , crank sensor etc... has spark ,do a fuel pressure test etc... don't think computer , when it won't start does the check engine light come on with the key on run not start . If light is lit ,nothing wrong with the cumputer . If want to fix cars you really should take some automotive classes . Test don't guess .Watch some other videos crank no start videos etc...
Best to go to a repair shop Did you test the fuel pump in any way ,or just guess & replace it.I would stop that diagnostic approachimmediately & get helpCould be ignition issues when it get hot.
not hardly for fuel injection..see the fuel pressure is mainained in a canister that houses the fuel pump in the tank..if money is an issue and it usually is.. you can get a fuel tank from a towyard for much less than a new pump.. I paid 35 bucks for mine and it runs fine..