You need to choose listen on your black berry mobile and than search for devices from laptop.
Below given is the online user manual of your blackberry. On Page 26 it tell you how to connect it to bluetooth devices.
http://docs.blackberry.com/en/smartphone_users/deliverables/4576/BlackBerry_Storm_9530_Smartphone-US.pdf
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Pair with a Bluetooth enabled device
Some Bluetooth® enabled devices have a passkey that you must type before you can pair
with them.
1. In the Bluetooth setup application, click Search or Listen.
2. If necessary, click a Bluetooth enabled device.
3. If necessary, type the passkey for the Bluetooth enabled device on your
BlackBerry® device.
4. If necessary, type the passkey for the Bluetooth enabled device on the Bluetooth
enabled device.
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