When i lift the bike up it dies i have already disconnected the side stand safety switch so that's not it. It idles fine when leaning on stand but dies when stood up or rocked side to side.

Here are some possible causes:

Low idle RPM: If your idle RPM is set too low, the bike may shut off when you put it in gear. You can consult a manual to see what the RPM should be.
Side stand switch: Most bikes have a safety switch that shuts down the engine if the side stand is still out. Check if the side stand is still out and if it is, try putting it up.
Clutch lever switch: Most bikes have an electrical switch in the clutch lever as a safety feature so that you can't start it in gear unless the clutch is in. This switch could be faulty.
Safety control box: This box checks all the safety features and kills the engine if needed. It could be faulty.
It's best to take your bike to a professional mechanic who can diagnose and fix the issue for you unless you can check off each of the above as the problem. https://www.manualslib.com/manual/833178/Yamaha-Xvs650.html

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It has a side stand safety switch doesn't it?

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The bike will either have a side stand cut out switch or a clutch cut out switch.

Both these will make the bike die when the side stand is down or the clutch is not pulled in

Check clutch switch may be stuck bike thinks you are putting in gear without pulling clutch

With the engine not running can you select 1st gear pull in the clutch lever and push the bike with no difficulty, if you cant, it may be the clutch plates have become stuck together, this can occure from standing for long periods, if you can push the bike it may be the neutrol safety switch, or the side stand safety switch have become faulty, and cutting the bike out as a precaution

Sound like it could be a problem with the side-stand cut-off switch. (It is to prevent you riding away with the side-stand down.) They are notorious for getting crud in them and sticking.

Hope this helps!