I have a 2004 jeep liberty and lost the owners manual...both reverse lights are out, can anyone tell me what the fuse number is and where its at in the pannel please.

mopar.com should have your owners manual. The fuse box, drivers side end of dash. cavity 3--20 amp, so says your owners manual.

Dealer part

Check the owners manual for location if you need a manual then go to this site.

ManualsLib Makes it easy to find manuals online

its programmable
the operators guide (lost that ) tell you how to turn that on or off.
its a feature.

lost that
its still fire this year, and will not be in 2016, my guess.
so now's the TIME.

http://www.jeep.com/en/owners/manuals/

the lid tells that, look first?
so does the operators guide. lost that
2004, may be same, 2003 is not off list.
http://www.jeep.com/en/owners/manuals/

dot/3/4 are most (you look it up , not me)

huh?\ which jeep? there are NO 2004 XJs so my wild guess is Liberty? the KJ jeep?????
is this a USA car, (this is a USA forum so..... )
yes I do see liberties call Cheroke'es in UK, and are not.

I'lll roll with KJ jeep.
ah, you lost the operators guide, and need dash cluster warnings.
not only does the book show them but explains easy.
here is the free manual, jeep has it too, for 10years, free.

http://justgivemethedamnmanual.com/jeep/jeep-liberty-owners-manuals/

this is a USA manual so some lights will vary
if not good enough
drive to jeep and buy your lost manual. now. in your country.
btw, your manual, matches your options, engine,trans 4wd, etc.

I had my Bluetooth in the cig lighter and when I took it out, a fuse n 2 other small things popped out, and lighter does not work now, so is the fuse in the lighter or the side box?? And how do you replace it?

You can get a free download of your owners manual w/ that info at the following site. Let me know if you have any trouble accessing it.
http:www.jeep.com/en/owners/manuals/index.html

http://autonaccessories.com/automobile/jeep/2004-jeep-liberty-owner-s-manual.html

here is the owners manual

Inside fuse cover will tell you what fuse is for what, if not there chk. owners manual.