My 2003 Honda CRV ...drivers side door does not lock with fob. All other doors lock. When I lock the drivers side door with the key, it won't unlock with the fob.

Sounds like you need a door lock actuator for the drivers door.

one of the door lock actuators is probably not working right. the door lock actuator is responsible for sending the correct signal to the door lock/unlock module to tell the module if/when a door is locked or unlocked

lost the other fob>>> ?????
never own a car with 1 fob.
and if one fob messes up, the battery inside is dead. (or worse)
if just lock fails the button is bad, if one fob false, and they do
its just cheezy switch. (can be cleaned)
use the other FOB, if it fails, post.

Your door lock actuator have issues

defective door lock actuator for 03 honda crv, consult your nearest car accessory installer for actuator replacement. now consider your problem solve.

edwin

https://www.clublexus.com/forums/rx-1st-gen-1999-2003/395765-driver-door-won-t-lock-or-unlock-using-key-transmitter.html

if the passenger side works with the fob and the power button and not the diver it is def the driver door lock actuator.

your window issue sounds like the power motor is slowly dying. In regards to the other question I'm not quite sure on what your question it in regards to the door, Thanks

replace the alarm module and make sure to get new remotes...

try testing or replaceing the drivers door lock actuator, reprogram ur key fobs and try unlocking and locking ur doors. as far as the lights and reminder,....it sounds like a seperate problem. but try the door actuator first (drivers side always act up and cause every other actuator to act up... like a bad kid that gets the rukkus started and ruins things for everyone..