Have a 1996 ford f150 need to replace fuel pump connector but truck wires are not the same i have orange/red/black and blue or brown with yellow stripe

SOURCE: 1995 Ford Windstar Speaker Coding Scheme.

www.installer.com as speaker schematics

SOURCE: need a stereo wiring diagram for my van.

Yep!
Here you go...
1995 Mercury Villager Car Stereo Radio Wiring Diagram
Radio Constant 12V+ Wire: Green/Purple
Radio Ignition Switched 12V+ Wire: Yellow/Black
Radio Ground Wire: Black/Light Green
Radio Illumination Wire: Green
Radio Dimmer Wire: N/A
Radio Antenna Trigger Wire: N/A
Radio Amplifier Trigger Wire: N/A
Front Speakers Size: 5′ x 7′
Front Speakers Location: Doors
Left Front Speaker Wire (+): Orange/Light Green
Left Front Speaker Wire (-): Light Blue/White
Right Front Speaker Wire (+): White/Light Green
Right Front Speaker Wire (-): Dark Green/Orange
Rear Speakers Size: 5′ x 7′
Rear Speakers Location: Side Panels
Left Rear Speaker Wire (+): Light Brown/White
Left Rear Speaker Wire (-): Light Brown/Yellow
Right Rear Speaker Wire (+): Light Brown/Green
Right Rear Speaker Wire (-): Brown/Pink

That's what they show for factory
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