Fuse for fuel pump cant find

The fuel pumps the fuel into the engine from the tank. If you can hear it running , then you need to hook up a pressure gauge to see how muck pressure you have. If you have enough pressure then check the injectors to see if they are getting current from the computer to inject the fuel to the cylinders.

fuse, ignition or relay or even fuel filter

Not a single person answered your question, they all told you an answer that didn't relate to your question. Anyways the relays for your fuel pump are under your dash behind the fuse box.

theres probably a short somewhere under the dash.

in the fuse panel under hood its marker fuel pump relay

CHECK THE PCM IGNITION FUSE.SINCE THE COMPUTER CONTROLS FIRE AND FUEL.

pull the PGM-FI relay located to the left of the steering wheel way up under the dash.

FUSE OR FUSE RELAY

http://www.tegger.com/hondafaq/startproblems.html#mainrelay see EFI Main Relay, half way down page

ITS IN THE GAS TANK