My belkin router is secure how do i disable it so I can use my wifi laptop

Depending on the version of router you have. You can download the user manual here.
http://www.belkin.com/support/article/?lid=en&aid=5999

http://cache-www.belkin.com/support/dl/p74559-g_f5d7230-4v9xxx_manual.pdf

Using your Internet browser, you can access the Router’s Web-Based
Advanced User Interface. In your browser, type “192.168.2.1” (you do not
need to type in anything else such as “http://” or “www”). Then press the
“Enter” key.
Logging into the Router
You will see the Router’s home page in your browser window. The home
page is visible to any user who wants to see it. To make any changes to
the Router’s settings, you have to log in. Clicking the “Login” button or
clicking on any one of the links on the home page will take you to the login
screen. The Router ships with no password entered. In the login screen,
leave the password blank and click the “Submit” button to log in.

On the back of the router,
Restoring the Factory Defaults
Press and hold the “Reset” button for at least 10 seconds,
then release it. The lights on the Router will momentarily
flash. The Power/Ready light will begin to blink. When
the Power/Ready light becomes solid again, the restore
is complete.

XP
Goto network places in xp and in the left panel there is a phrase "Enable UpnP Devices" Click it. let windows go through the installation
now you may have to refresh but you will see the router. click on it and log in (password may be admin no password or something like that)
goto Wireless. setup as deezired.

Vista
same as xp but no need to Enable UpnP devices.

Failsafe.....
Press the reset button on the router and goto its config page like in the prior steps. Set-up as deezired.

hope this helps sorry if does not.