I bought a Brother XL3750 and did not recieve a manual. Can you help me to get one? Thank you

http://www.brother-usa.com/HomeSewing/ModelDetail.aspx?ProductID=XL3750

This site may help:
Brother Computerized Sewing Quilting Machines Brother Mall

But you can probably do your own comparison by searching each model and then comparing the specifications and the reviews they've each received.

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contact brother customer service about the oiling.

you can download a manual for your machine from the Brother website,
link is
http://welcome.solutions.brother.com/BSC/public/files/dlf/doch000452/bm2736xl26i35i375ug04enes.pdf

Reverse is the big lever in front but it should be sprung so you need to hold it down to reverse; if your machine is only sewing backwards, this lever might be stuck or locked into position. Check out page 25 and 26 in the manual for specific info.

the manual is downloadable from here
http://welcome.solutions.brother.com/BSC/public/files/dlf/doch000452/bm2736xl26i35i375ug04enes.pdf
but it doesn't specify the weight.

Shipping Weight (in pounds): 18.25 Product in Inches (L x W x H): 15.4 x 6.7 x 11.5

brother.com has a free manual to download

go to the homepage & at the left on the bottom look for product manuals

on the next page select your model number & download it

Hello, Cwpetronio -

I hope I am correct in thinking your Brother sewing machine is in the XL series of sewing machines. If so . . .

I think you will find the instructive illustrations here helpful:
http://support.brother.com/g/b/faqend.aspx?prod=hf_xl3750eus&c=us_ot&lang=en&faqid=faqh00000467_000

I would think the instructions for threading the machine are in the owner's manual. If you do not have the manual, you can download on free here:
http://homeappliance.manualsonline.com/manuals/mfg/brother/xl3750.html

Note: The manual is in PDF format, meaning you will need Adobe Reader software (free). After you download the manual, I recommend you save it in your Documents folder using a file name you can find again easily - Brother XL-3750 Manual. You can print the manual for easy reference.

Best wishes.

Go to www.brother-usa.com and download a free manual. Good luck

pull up your spool pin that holds the thread, it is in the down position.

Go to www.brother.com and enter your machine type. Look for online pdf file for that machine. It should be able to tell you what it comes with, what they are and what they are used for. Most machines come with a button hole maker, a zipper foot as well as a dozen other types of feet. Mine came with a free hand embroider foot, zipper, button maker, and two others.
Try online manuals, since you can read them, store them on your hard drive for easy referral later.