Elec/windows are not working and all the fuses are fine just cant find the relay switch for it , its a 1990 subaru legacy sedan

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Relays don't have a reset button, they are just an electro mechanical switch. Subaru don't have inertia cut off switches.

https://www.subaruforester.org/threads/2004-cant-find-the-fuel-pump-reset-switch.844913/

Help in the link, but it sounds like you need an auto electrician even though you give no clue what is wrong with the vehicle.

https://www.google.com/search?q=2004+subaru+legacy+fuel+pump+relay+reset+button

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check the power window control box

You just did. Its the master switch. Buy a switch from a large parts store, use a flat tip screwdriver to remove switch then install new switch. This should take you about 20 mins. Super Easy

• Check fuse #9 at in car fuse panel
• Check Illumination CTRL Module for melt-down
• Check that Tail and Illumination relay is fully seated, top center of in-car fuse panel.

The relay is most likely the cause.

Replace the relay.Thats a common thing to fail.

look under passnger seat and carpet this where the circuit breaker is located most likely you'll find a corroded solder joint 6-8 inches away from it,good luck

check your timing belt sounds like that could be the problem

on the negative side of the ignition coil

I have a 92 that did the same. After checking fuses and the relay(located under drivers seat) I discovered that the power windows control module on drivers door was bad. Went to a salvage and bought a used for $40, pulled the door panel, unscrewed and unplugged the old one, put in the used one and everything worked fine. About a week later, the passenger side motor went out and replaced that with a used power window motor. All windows now work fine.