When I went to lock my doors they lock and right away unlock then I hit the unlock button and it dosent work also as I'm driving it makes the sound like its unlocling and locking but when I parked my car and maunally locked my doors I came out awhile later and they unlocked themselves

and you want us to guess the year, make and model, right? As if all door lock brands are the same?

Door you know how these door locks work ? Computer controlled Chevy Impala Door Locks Do Not Work Trunk Will Not Open
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Here are the options for disarming a factory alarm while it's going off:

1. Close all doors, trunk and hood. Alarm will stop after preset time.

2. Hit the unlock or lock button on the remote. (One of the 2 works... I just don't remember which.)

3. With all doors, trunk and hood close, insert the key in the driver's door and unlock/lock the doors manually.

Also, is it a factory security system? Is it a honda key fob? or a remote start system perhaps?

It makes an annoying whirring noise right? You need to replace the lock solenoid.

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replace the remote's battery

There are Valet keys (often with a green knob) that will
only unlock the front doors and the ignition but not the
glove box nor boot/trunk.

When either the front door locks or the console button is
pressed, all the doors should lock. Likewise, when either
front door is unlocked, all the doors fuel filler lid and if
selected, the boot will also unlock.

Boot lock has three positions. Unlocked to the left,
automatic with the doors in the center, always locked to the
right. Simply remove the key in what ever position you desire.

The locks can get confused and not work correctly. Simply
sit in the car and manually lock all the doors. That will
usually get the locking module sane again.

Sounds like a short in the lock switch or in one of the doors. Eliminate each one step by step by unplugging each unit one at a time and see if the problem goes away. Start with the lock button that you push to lock and unlock the doors from the inside. This switch tends to get a lot of soda and coffee spilled on it and it shorts out.

it sounds like you have a bad battery...try putting in a good battery to see if that dosent help

this problem seems to be connected to the door jam switch(s). does the breaker switch become hot ? If it does your problem might be the door jam switch from the passenger side. this causes other problems too. It sometimes causes the seat to not work either. Check the breaker switch for the door.replace it if it is hot.

Make sure your hood is shut. I just got my 2002 Honda Odyssey back from the dealer today (90,000 mile check-up - I love my van and will drive it until it dies!) and when I went to lock the van with my remote transmitter, the lights didn't flash and the horn didn't sound. I open and closed all the doors and tailgate and I could hear that the doors were locked, but the security system wasn't working and that is why the lights didn't blink or the horn didn't sound. I walked up to the front of the van to check the hood to make sure it was closed (there isn't an indicator light for an open hood, only open doors) and the hood wasn't shut completely. Once I opened the hood and let it drop to securely shut, I hit the door lock button on the remote and everything worked like a charm! Hope this helps others in this predicament.