I have a 2004 toyota corolla ce. i cant seem to find the a/c clutch relay.

It is a very basic, entry level Toyota Corolla and only sold in South Africa. You didn't tell us the year, but they are all here. Fuses 3,16, 18, and 25.

Fuse Box Diagram Toyota Corolla (E140/E150; 2007-2013)

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Fuse box diagram (location and assignment of electrical fuses and relays) for Toyota Corolla / Auris (E140/E150; 2007, 2008, 2009, 2010, 2011, 2012, 2013).

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Fuse Box Layout Toyota Corolla CE, LE & S 1.8 L - 1ZZ-FE or 2ZZ-GE (2003, 2004, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2008)

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Time for a complete clutch service

The clutch is slipping & barely works at all

Could be several things. Blown fuse, loss of freon, relay, compressor clutch, etc.

First of all check the freon pressure, if the pressure is low the compressor clutch will not turn on. The pressure should be between 30-40 PSI.

I don't want to be a shadetree mechanic, but, did you check the fuse(s) ?

I would check the AC clutch relay. It has a bad habit of going out. It is located in the fuse box under the hood next to the battery. It is the smaller rectangular relay nearest to the negative battery post. It is labeled M/G CLT. You can swap out a similar relay and see if it fixes the problem. New relays can be purchased from Rockauto.com for $11

You may need to recharge your AC. The AC clutch relay seems to be a high failure item for this car. You can test by swapping relays under the hood. The AC clutch relay is located next to the negative battery post in the fuse box under the hood on the driver's side fender. It is the smaller relay marked "M/G CLT". This is available from Rockauto.com, $11.

under bonnet near battery silver round top metal relay should be 2 on inner gaurd area

Sylvania / Bulb - Cornering Light
921LLBP $3.49I think this is the bulb you looking part is from autozone

Replace your magnetic clutch relay.
TSB EL011-05 : A/C LIGHT FLASHING - MAGNETIC CLUTCH RELAY 6/3/2005 - 2001 – 2004 Toyota Camry, ECHO, & Celica. 2002 – 2004 4Runner, Corolla, & MR2 Spyder. 2003 – 2004 Matrix, Sienna, & Solara. This bulletin is to provide information regarding countermeasures to the A/C magnetic clutch relay for A/C light flashing (inoperative A/C) issues on some vehicles equipped with a magnetic clutch compressor.
Applicable Warranty*:
This repair is covered under the Toyota Comprehensive Warranty. This warranty is in effect for 36 months or 36,000 miles, Whichever occurs first, from the vehicle’s in-service date.
* Warranty application is limited to correction of a problem based upon a customer’s specific complaint