No dash lights windows wont go up or down car wont even attempt to start could it be the fuses dealing with the starter relay cause i hear a clickin sound from the fuses underneath the wheel left side with all the other fuses above that fuse box is 3 starter relay fuses the clicking is coming from them

Could be a bad starter, bad fuse for starter, or even bad relay for starter

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What year vehicle ? The clicking sound you hear from bake seat is probably a relay ! There is a fuse / relay box under the back seat ! How did you check the starter relay ? Just pull it out an look at it ? Was it #36 START 1 Relay
-- Starter Solenoid and PCM in the under hood fuse / relay Box ?
This relay is computer energized - PCM supply's a ground to circuit 447 which energizes the relay sending voltage to the starter S terminal engaging the starter . Do you have a test light or a volt ohm meter ? If you pull out the starter relay an look on the bottom you will see some numbers , 85,86 an 30,87 . match them up to the holes they came out of . Check out this video on YouTube ,you can check for voltage an computer control . Is the SECRUITY light lit on the dash ?
This VEHICLE RELAYS Operation Diagnosis VEHICLE RELAYS Testing from the relay base

Follow the smaller red start wire from the starter to the inhibit relay. Pull the relay out and interrogate the relay socket with a multimeter or test light. Use the diagram at the link below to troubleshoot the circuit.
http://www.revbase.com/BBBMotor/Wd/DownloadPdf?id=36472

You may have an issue with the starter relay, since the battery seems fine, and jumpstart wouldn't do any good. An excellent way to check is by asking someone to tap on the started with a hammer, while you attempt to start the vehicle. If the car cranks, the problem may be fixable; If not, you may have to replace the starter relay.

I'm guessing that it isn't even turning over. There are a couple of things you can check. Both are in the power distribution box under the hood of the vehicle (see picture below). Also below is a picture of the fuse and relay layout. There is one fuse directly related to the starter relay (number 8 marked with a red arrow) and also the starter relay itself (also marked with a red arrow). I hope this helps.

soundslike theres a problem with the ignition switch/barrel or the wireing to/from it

I would say that is one of your relays or fuse. It may actually be on your engine firewall, even though it seems to be from under the dash.

It would help a whole lot if you could describe the problem with more information. Do any of the lights on the car work? Do you hear any noise when you attempt to start car?
Try moving the gear shifter out of Park position and then back again a few times. Turn the key to the start position a few times.
Problem could be a bad ignition switch, neutral safety switch, starter or starter relay (located in underhood fuse box, #47 relay)

no starter relay is always at the fuse relay box at the engine compartment. The relay that you hear is the relay for the accessories to turn off the power during starting position.

My 98 Eclipse w/turbo is doing the exact same thing. I have checked the battery and good, the wires good, the starter good. I read that there is a relay in the dash for starting the car. Could this be the issue?