I have a 1999 Honda odyssey but it is bad at everything except the engine. Transmission was rebuilt and parts was replaced brand new but the problem is my battery light and ABS light comes on/off each time I drive? Drive fast it goes OFF but slowing down it come ON

SOURCE: 1999 honda odyssey-engine stalls while driving-electric is fine-

Maybe the solution
There is a recall on the ignition switch,
My 99 Ody with 120K would suddenly switch off and come back while runing, Take it to dealer and report to Honda, Since out of warranty. The dealer would do the repairs estimated at $100 charge to you.

SOURCE: ABS Light is on all the time.

the abs module could be the problem but they also had common problem with rear speed sensor harness breaking at the connector by the front of the left rear wheel

SOURCE: 1999 bmw 528i replaced battery and alternator

Replace your battery when its being tested there not testing it under a heavy enough load. A battery could have a dead cell in it and still show good on the charger. I've had that problem a few times.

SOURCE: 1998 honda accord rebuilt transmission

There is a break in period on new transmissions, however it should not be shifting like you described. Shifting is controlled by sensors and solenoids, it is the clutch disks and friction plates that need to be broken in. A number of things could cause a transmission to act like this. You should have them do a whole system scan and find out if there are any faults. It there are, correct them before you damage the transmission.

If it were normal for a car to shift poorly with a new transmission, Honda would never sell any new cars.

Check fluid level and color - If it is burned, take it back immediately.

SOURCE: Honda Odyssey -DVD stuck in "Loading" after dead battery replaced

I have identical issue, took it to the dealer and they "offered" to remove the unit and send it for repair..... not very helpfull.