Hi I have a 2009 MITSUBISHI outlander and all the service and warning lights have started to flash.any ideas

This may be a non transmission related issue. A number of Mitsubishi forums have had inquiries to service/warning lights coming up on their displays which were being triggered by battery faults (battery dead/bad cells/not charging etc) A normal service interval for a transmission is 90,000 kms but I'd get the battery condition checked first.

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MITSUBISHI OUTLANDER SERVICE REPAIR MANUAL 2003 2007 DOWNLOAD

This might help some: https://www.google.com/search?q=2009+Mitsubishi+Outlander+equalizer&biw=1280&bih=519&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0CAcQ_AUoAmoVChMIks2jxY7ZxwIViNKACh2hzwey#tbm=isch&q=2009+Mitsubishi+Outlander+equalizer+diagram&imgrc=hjFpF6JEl8LboM%3A

replace the oxygen sensor with a new one, is a good first step

http://resetoillight.com/Mitsubishi/oil-...

It is really confusing when different people have different explanations for this ?? Sign . I had the same warning sign today flashing on My Mitsubishi Outlander 2016 MY17 and I found conflicting explanations on different online forums which was not satisfactory. I even called local and National Mitsubishi customer services and I was told to bring down the vehicle to the service station and they also said that they don’t know what the ?? signs indicates . Pretty bizarre ! Pertinent to mention here that this warning ?? sign states displaying on the panel this morning when I was driving from home to work and I was running low on ?? as low fuel warning started displaying at the same time . Anyway later in the afternoon I went to refuel my car at a nearest petrol station and topped it up and turned on the ignition and the ?? sign was no more displaying on the panel. I also read that this ?? Sign can displaying indicating low tyre pressure or in my case low fuel pressure . I think there is nothing to be worried about unless the ?? Sign keeps displaying .
Thanks

Turn on the key but do not start it. Rapidly depress the gas pedal three times. That should reset it for u. J.

I mounted the dealer crossbars onto my 2010 Mitsu Outlander. The drag noise is VERY loud. It sounds like I have a window open and worse they whistle as well. Any ideas how to fix this?

While I understand this answer may be overkill, follow this link to an article about the engine cooling system. Look midway down the article for this sentence "More information about 2003 Mitsubishi Outlander Engine Cooling System service and troubleshooting, find here – 32 pages of PDF filetype" Click on the "find here" link which will prompt you to download a file 14_rar. Open it with any decompressing software (Winzip, WinRar) to find 14.pdf. Go to page 14-23 to see a diagram of where water pump is. It will also give you instructions on removing and replacing it. Good luck!

http://www.fixautopartz.com/2009/03/20/2003-mitsubishi-outlander-engine-cooling-system

A 2009?????? It should be under warranty, take to the dealer.