How do you reset fuel filter warning light after filter replacement 2009 sata fee deisel

Unfortunately this is a well known issue and well documented.

https://www.google.com/search?q=2010+Jaguar+XF+3+liter+Diesel.+Water+in+diesel+warning+light

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The electronic switch on the top of the fuel filter housing is the fuel filter warning switch.
To reset the warning light on the cluster you need to do this:
1. With the ignition switch off, disconnect the fuel filter warning switch connector.
2. Turn the ignition switch from off to ON.
3. After more than 3 seconds but less than 60 seconds have elapsed, reconnect the connector.
4. After approximately 3 seconds have elapsed with the fuel filter warning switch closed, the
system confirms the deletion of the illumination information by turning off* the warning light.

I was driving my car and it shut completely off. No warning lights no engine light it just shut off. It sound like it wants to turn over I replaced the fuel pump it lasts for about a month. It shut off again without no warning while driving. Is there a reset button on a 2009 Sonata or could it be my relay fuse?

then starts again, and repeats??? gee.? or wont"?
fuel filter dirty?
bad fuel?
is it cold?
are the glow plugs ok
are warning lamps going unheeded? is the check engine light on running. did you scan the pcm for dtc errors?

Have your spark plugs and fuel and air filters checked, replace if necessary.

Change the diesel filer element.
Unplug the only connecter on filter housing.
Turn the ignition key to on position.
Go back and plug in the connector after more than five seconds.
The light should go off

Read the owners manual. If it doesn't say in there, call the dealer and ask them to explain it to you.

how to reset the fuel filter replacement warning

You can try to reset the ecu, just switch the ignition into off position, disconnect the sensor cable at the fuel filter housing, turn the key into on position, but dont start your car, connect back the cable, the warning should goes off after fews second.