My brake lights shut off when I turn my lights on also no tail lights at all?

enlist the aid of an accredited auto electrician as there is a power module in the system that has failed
basically when you have the tail lights plugged in there is a circuit to enable the ecm to run the motor
when you apply the brakes , there is a reverse circuit that is stopping power to the ecm and the engine shuts off
there is a light control module that controls the brakes and tail lights and it gets its power from the light switch and the ECM
The fault will be obvious to an experienced electrician.

Headlight switch probably the problem. One circuit is shutting off when the other turns on. If it was a fuse or relay, it would just turn off...

Pull the brake light fuse. Do they shut off? If so, check the switch at the top of your brake pedal. If not, check for power shorting to your brake light circuit, most likely from a substandard stereo install.

it could be the brake light relay

Sounds like the brake light switch under the brake peddle change it out should be okay.under 15 bucks at the parts store

It's stalling at lights because of no brake lights. Meaning the brake light switch and transmission power to shut off the overdrive is not working. Any time you touch the brake, overdrive is turned off because power to trans is stopped when brake lights come on. Both these operations are performed by the same switch under the dash and mounted so that when the brake pedal is depressed, the switch button comes out and turns on the brake lights in turn shutting down the overdrive. Adjust or replace that brake light switch and you're good to go.

brake and tail lights do not work after changing bulbs, brake switch and the fuses are good

Tail lights or brake lights? If it is the brake lights the brake light switch is stuck shut. Replace it. If it is tail lights, then possibly the light switch is defective.

Auto light shut off is a relay that is basically a timer.
Replace it .

sounds like a bad turn signal switch