ABS light comes on, then Battery, Dash lights flash

Probably aftermarket alarm. Should be a small switch close to it to turn it off. If it were mine, I would remove the system .

Why are your using it-- for some time ?

When you start the motor or drive, and any dash light
comes on, you have problems & stop using it, & have it
checked for codes, to see the system with the fault, & get
it diagnosed & repaired,not continue to use it, & possibly
do damage to something

You might have a problem with the wires giving power to the ECM.

When turning the key on does the check engine light come on ? Headlamps light and are bright ? Check for blown fuse's , starter relay check .

The fact that you've blown 2 fuses unrelated is odd. Have you been in a accident in the front lately? The most of the cars lately don't have a voltage regulator, it's in the ECM. So what goes on when the ign. fuse blows? Is there a different fuse for the ECM?

do the self test for the check engine light.

insert key turn to on(not cranking)off, on off, on. The code will either show up on a digital odometer or will flash out in pulses on the check engine light. jot down the numbers; they will come in pairs. This may aide in repairing your car. report back

This is a real common problem on caravan. But I haven't seen it on stratus. But it might be the same thing. When it won't start the gauge won't work at the same time? When it does this does slapping the side of the dash make the gauges work and then the car starts? Try this

It may be the alternator... not a very expensive part to replace your self, about $150.

your battery cables and battery posts need to be cleaned. or the pattery cables need to be replaced

The light you speak of is actually indicating an issue with the charging system and is usually an indicator of a faulty alternator.
However if your light flashes and doesn't remain lit it could be a sign of a bad connection in the charging system. If it only flashes once in a while you are better off to wait until it remains lit for a while. Simply because electrical diagnosis is very time consuming and the mechanic can spend hours looking and still not find a clear cause for your issue. And these wasted hours can cost you BIG.
But keep in mind that when that light is lit your battery is not receiving a charge and will go dead and could leave you stranded. So don't stray too far from home until you can get this issue resolved
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